Case study · from Think Like a Family Office · A business sold the same year, for the same price — and a decade of drift
The Calloways: the alternative, whenever the alternative needs a face
Nothing in the Calloway story required villainy or a bad market — only the absence, at every fork, of a decision written down while writing was cheap.
What this case teaches
- Spending drift: 4, 5, then 7 percent
- Eleven years without a loss bank
- One direct investment, diligenced over dinner
- The loudest voice on a March 2020 call
- Four years of litigation over two flawless documents
Chapters 1, 3, 6, 10, 12, 15, 21, 24–25
The balance sheet
Who they are
Illustrative composite. Not a client; figures are teaching constructs.
- Size
- Not stated in dollars; they sold a business 'for nearly identical prices' to the other family in Chapter 1, and 'the money largely survived.'
- Source of wealth
- Sale of an operating company; the will left the company to all three children in equal shares while the buy-sell agreement obligated its sale to the eldest at a formula price.
- Generation and structure
- Founders plus a second generation of three children (the eldest named in the buy-sell); a brother-in-law ran the family's one direct investment; the heirs learned the family's number from a court filing. A decade after the sale the family 'communicates mostly through counsel.'
- Objectives
- None written down—'no one had ever decided anything.'
Entities and documents
- The operating company (subject of the conflicting will and buy-sell agreement)
- A logistics venture run by a brother-in-law (the entire direct portfolio)
- A hastily formed LLC and transfers to a spouse made on the eve of judgment (reversed by the court)
- No charter, no ranges, no playbook, no written spending rate, no loss bank
The decisions
What they did, chapter by chapter
“Nothing in their story required villainy—only the absence, at every fork, of a page someone had written down in advance.”
— Think Like a Family Office
- Chapter 1Sold a business the same year, for nearly the same price, as a disciplined family; a decade on the spending rate nobody set 'became a rate nobody could survive,' the brother-in-law's venture became a deposition, and the will and buy-sell agreement disagreed about who owned the company; the difference was paper, not markets.
- Chapter 3Never set a spending rate: 4 percent the year of the sale, 5 by the third year once the second house had staff, and 7 by year nine—'not a vote, a drift.'
- Chapter 6Harvested nothing for eleven years; the advisor sold winners and held losers, so there was no loss bank when the concentrated unwind arrived in a hurry.
- Chapter 10The direct portfolio was one investment: a brother-in-law's logistics venture entered without written criteria, priced without an appraisal, papered without exit provisions, diligenced over dinner; it ended seven years later in the deposition.
- Chapter 12The concentration was never modeled; the family learned its diversification schedule 'from a buyer, on the buyer's timetable, in a year nobody chose.'
- Chapter 15In March 2020, with no charter, ranges, or playbook, a conference call on which the loudest voice prevailed cut the portfolio in half eleven days before the bottom; no document said who could decide.
- Chapter 21The heirs learned the family's number from a court filing; the parents meant to tell them 'when they were ready,' and the lawsuit arrived first.
- Chapter 24Eve-of-judgment transfers to a spouse and a hastily formed LLC were reversed 'almost casually,' and the attempt colored everything the family later said in court.
- Chapter 25The will (equal shares to three children) and the buy-sell agreement (sale to the eldest at formula price) were individually flawless and mutually exclusive; four years of litigation answered a question one advisor-afternoon of side-by-side reading would have dissolved.
- Final ThoughtsSettled the last of the litigation eighteen months ago; 'The money largely survived; money usually does. The family did not.'
The lesson
What The Calloways teach
Nothing in the Calloway story required villainy or a bad market—only the absence, at every fork, of a decision written down while writing was cheap; the market never distinguished them from the disciplined families, and paper did.
The same disciplines — the investment policy built from the four flows, the family P&L and spending policy, after-tax allocation, private markets pacing, governance calendar and continuity rehearsal — are the daily work of Vistamark’s Private Wealth & Family Offices. If any of the Calloway forks looks familiar, the fix is not a market view. It is a page.
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The VistaWealth Office™ is the practice the book describes. Two of its contributing authors work with families there.